The Art of Finding Joy in Things You’re Lousy At

This is the first post on my newly designed website, which I invite you to check out here. “Why exactly do you have a website?,” you ask? Please read on…


In most everything, but especially art, we celebrate those whose artistry rises so high above good as to be sublime. And bravo to those gifted few—the world is a richer place for the Michelangelo’s and DiVinci’s. But what about the rest of us who struggle to sketch an animal recognizable as a dog (or is that a cat)? Is it possible to find joy in doing things that we’re mediocre at, if not lousy? (See, for example, my cartoon for this post.)

I think so.

Maybe the first step is to simply follow the creative urge wherever it leads without judgment about whether what you’re doing is any good. I was amazed, for example, when the entire catalogue of Beatles recordings was released, how many of their songs were…well, not that great. (If it’s not heresy, listen to “Little Child.”) But I’m not sure they cared: making music was just what they did, and no matter that not everything was Yesterday.

For me, the hurdle is often just starting, sitting down with a pen and paper even if it feels like I have nothing to say. As has been said, “The secret to good writing is bad first drafts.” Then there’s self-judgment, and its evil twin, the-judgment-of-others. “This is terrible,” they say, or “My six-year-old could have done that.” Well, that’s probably true, but you know what? Your six-year-old can do that because they haven’t yet learned that you have to be good at something to enjoy it. They just do it, it goes up on the refrigerator, and everyone seems happy with that.

And if the way we think about this isn’t bad enough, now we have machines that can write for us, create images, “compose” songs, you name it, and we scarcely have to lift a finger. And so we have another technology heralded for what it can do for us, when we should be asking what is this doing to us?

Finally, if any further proof is needed, there’s this little bit of writing you’re reading right now (and everything else on this website), about which you might well think, “This isn’t particularly good.” And you would be right about that, I’d agree, but to that I tell myself, “So what?” I could have produced something better using ChatGPT, no matter. Creativity is good in and of itself, regardless of how good what gets created turns out to be. Of course, I try as best I can, and it feels good when I think something has turned out well and others like it, but I have to remember they’re probably just complimenting the finger painting of a dog on the refrigerator (or is that a cat?).

So, see what you think, leave a comment if you’re so moved, and what I’d really enjoy is you sharing something you’ve done.

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  1. I greatly prefer to hear your thoughts directly from you, rather than through an LLM. Art is truth!

    Your words also remind me of something Billy Collins, the poet, said, something to the extent of: “It felt like everything had already been said and said much better than anything I could produce. Once I stopped trying to say anything new or important, my poetry improved significantly.”

  2. Hmm, Nice Kevin! Is that a unicorn on the left!? 🙂
    However, so glad you stayed away from any gen AI to do this
    Maxime

  3. KEEP WRITING KEVIN ! The art world if full of examples where the public initially reacted with a resounding: “This isn’t particularly good”. When Monet and Renoir, first exhibited their work, critics mocked it and coined the term Impressionism as an insult to describe art that looked like a blurry, unskilled first draft rather than a finished painting. During his lifetime, Van Gogh sold only one painting before his death. (!) Picasso’s closest friends and art dealers were horrified at his “ugly” and “crude” fragmented, and distorted figures. When Pollock introduced his drip paintings , people called him a scam-artist and called it the work of a chimpanzee. What if those artists had listened to the public, or worse had listened to their own inner critic??!! Keep creating!!! xxoo Alexa

  4. I thoroughly enjoyed your essay, Kevin. You inspire creativity in me since you’re so brave to invite feedback which really isn’t necessary these days. With the ease of leaving a comment on social media it’s almost automatic. When I first saw your drawing I thought it was a cat and a unicorn. 😊
    Vicki Wahl

  5. Kev, I love this piece, this invitation, inspirational nudge, dare, or whatever. It’s the time spent within that creative process that is most enjoyable.
    Wonky Studios-my creative place that reminds me that it’s not about perfection.

  6. Creative writing may be a bit like playing tennis (at our level).. You rarely create a masterpiece playing, but hopefully enjoy the process, revel in the highlights, and don’t get too discouraged with the errors….

  7. I am not sure if the term “wabisabi” can be used to describe writing, but that is exactly how your writing feels to me. It’s a breath of fresh air in this crazy world. Keep on writing my friend.
    Jirka

  8. I can relate to these sentiments as I have been painting for a few years now. I try to remember that it’s the process that matters, not the final product. (But don’t we love when the final product is beautiful – to us and to others…) I have a song for you to listen to you – If only I knew how to attach it??? ;/ “It’s Okay to Suck at Stuff” is the title – It’s cute and I thought you might appreciate it. It’s by a local Tacoma group that we have come to love, called Champagne Sunday. Enjoy! Thanks for your writings, Kevin! I appreciate them!

  9. This is a great perspective. My kids often are frustrated when they are not awesome at something right away, but I think it’s something we adults struggle with too, as you point out. (Now I’m wondering if my comment is any good or not. Ah, the curse of self-consciousness!) ~Nik

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